#LifeLessons2016

It is a pleasure to bring you part Two of the #LifeLessons of 2016:

1.       Ambition is a fickle lover that needs constant attention, love, nourishing and nurturing every single day.

2.       Give pieces of your heart even if you don’t get them back or they come back swollen and sore, your heart eventually learns to heal.

3.       In business as in life, choose a partner that will love unconditionally, shout occasionally, respect immeasurably and believe and breathe the vision indefinitely  

4.       Find a recipe that will help you fight your life demons; ice cream, staying off social media, reading and writing work wonders for me

5.       God’s favour is always ready for you to activate it; Listen attentively, plead for  His presence in your life and receive all the blessings 

6.       Always dare yourself to leave the pockets of comfort you have moulded your life into. Stray from the path, travel to new places, learn something new and always be grateful for another day on earth. 

7.       Life literally and figuratively gets easier when you share your life story with loved ones, family, friends, and even total strangers.

8.       Concentrate all your energy and resources into building you and your Brand. Find out what you want to do in life (no matter how long the journey takes) and pursue it with all your heart.

9.       There will be people who come into your life to teach you a lesson, acknowledge them, appreciate the lesson and archive the memories

10.   Make time to pamper yourself. Reward yourself for being so awesome 

Hold On

'Let hope come and whisper into your ear

Let faith guide you from the darkness to light

Let the trumpets of God’s favour bring life into your cheeks

Let the winds of change blow away your hurt, anger and resentment,

Let me love your pain into submission'. 

- July,2016 

Chasing Dreams

What happened to the big eyed little girl who believed in the power of her dreams.
Suckling on her thumb and sharing her dreams of the future with anyone who would listen
"A doctor-Dj you say?"  And they would erupt into mocking laughter

But that wasn't the only dream the little girl had. She wanted to write, save lives, drive fast cars, and entertain people for a living. I loved that little girl.  She never stopped dreaming dreams bigger than reality.
It took me a while to reconnect with that little girl. I'm consumed by the fire to succeed.  To get all my plans off the ground. To just know that I'm enough. To break out of the shell that I have buried myself and my dreams in. It's time to revive and liberate  my dreams.

Pieces of my Soul

........STILL I RISE!

Well I know it has been a while but life took a few knocks and for many days at a time I just couldn't get up and move on. The blows were hard hitting and unrelenting, on some days I could get up and try face the world with a smile but they were days I simply couldn't get off the ground. Or muster a smile or take calls.

Anyway, I'm here to tell you that I have swam all the corners of the deepest darkest alleys in life and yet still I rose. I have fought a very long and hard battle ( it's not over yet) but I'm finally coming out of my shell. I have collected enough bits and pieces of my soul, everyday I weave them together with delicate songs and food, nourishing my body to rise again and conquer the world.


I now know true happiness and love lives here in this once empty heart of mine. From the ashes I rose and redesigned my destiny with a single step into the unknown. I have been writing more and taking care of my health and interacting with other human beings. I have found my life purpose. and if tomorrow life dares to try and knock me down I will not stumble nor fall, I will get up and rise once again.

Letter to a friend

Hello friend, I just want to let you know that what you are going through right now is sad but it’s also teaching you many valuable lessons. Take this heartbreak as a challenge, concur it and don’t let petty issues get in the way of your success.  You are being blessed with endless opportunities because you have positioned yourself to be great. The universe is conspiring to making all your dreams become a reality. Keep focusing on yourself and your art. Spiritual, personal and professional growth will see you through the many trenches you will face in life. Be ready to take on any challenge and all shall be well. Don’t give up or give in. your time is near. Trust.  Keep praying for strength and clarity of mind. All shall be revealed soon.